MOP’s Carlo recently brought this question to the MOP team after he suffered through a particularly bad PUG – that he put together himself using volunteers in Discord.
“After an hour and a half of attempts, we got to the boss, but we didn’t know we had to run to the boss, and we ended up dying. After that last time, I was too tired to continue and we called it a day. This was the first time I didn’t use any sort of matchmaking to clear content in years, and I think I forgot some of the etiquette around it – namely, if you make a PUG or ask for help, what’s the proper amount of time you should spend with them? Is there a minimum? A maximum? I’m thinking three or four games or 90 minutes is a fair amount.”
I thought it would be a fun thought experiment to pitch to the MOP readers this morning because I’m not sure of the answer – it probably varies by game. I’m more shocked that the people he recruited in Discord to help clear actually stuck with it more than an hour. “People aren’t usually so reliable,” I opined. “I’d probably try to give the other dudes an out if we knew it was not going to happen in a reasonable time frame” – rather than abandoning them myself.
So let’s break it down. How long do you stick with a failing MMO PUG? How long do you expect other people to stick through it? And what if you made the PUG yourself and are the de facto leader?